A set of tweaks to simplify electron packaging (#421)

* Replace `ormconfig.js` with a newer mechanism of configuring
    TypeORM that can be included in the source code properly.
    The path to `ormconfig.js` has always been awkward to handle,
    and eliminating the file makes building different Grist setups
    a bit simpler.
  * Remove `electron` package. It is barely used, just for some old
    remnants of an older attempt at electron packaging. It was used
    for two types, which I left at `any` for now. More code pruning is
    no doubt possible here, but I'd rather do it when Electron packaging
    has solidified.
  * Add a hook for replacing the login system, and for adding some
    extra middleware the login system may need.
  * Add support for some more possible locations of Python, which
    arise when a standalone version of it is included in the Electron
    package. This isn't very general purpose, just configurations
    that I found useful.
  * Support using grist-core within a yarn workspace - the only tweak
    needed was webpack related.
  * Allow an external ID to be optionally associated with documents.

package.json

@@ -131,7 +131,6 @@
     "csv": "4.0.0",
     "diff-match-patch": "1.0.5",
     "double-ended-queue": "2.1.0-0",
-    "electron": "19.0.9",
     "exceljs": "4.2.1",
     "express": "4.16.4",
     "file-type": "16.5.4",